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November, 2013

  1. Italian Soysage Soup

    November 29, 2013 by admin

    One of our favorite meals is TR’s Italian Sausage (Soysage!) Soup.  It is a sure-fire hit for a cold, winter lunch or dinner.   A rarity for us, in that it uses a soy-meat protein (which we consume in moderation).  This soup recipe is easy and delicious.  It takes less than an hour from start to finish. IMG_0539

    Ingredients:

    1 Onion

    2 Tablespoons Chopped Garlic

    2 Tablespoons Oil

    1 Teaspoon Salt

    1 teaspoon Pepper

    1 Tablespoon Oregano

    Ground Cayenne pepper (optional)

    2 Quarts Water or vegetable stock or add bouillon to the water

    3 Cups home cooked tomatoes or 1 28oz. can Diced Tomatoes*

    1 Cup Orzo pasta

    1 Box Vegetarian Breakfast Soysage (8 to 10 links) We use Morningstar Farms or Boca brands most of the time

    Note: We avoid canned goods in our home, so we rough chop and cook fresh tomatoes on the stove.

    Directions:

    Saute onions in oil with salt, pepper and oregano, on a medium heat.  When onions are soft and translucent, add garlic.  (If you add garlic at the beginning, you might scorch it!)  Add diced tomatoes and stock, let simmer while you slice the soysage.  Cut links into coins, (or cut them at a small diagonal, to create oval shaped slices, like a Pro).   Add soysages and Orzo and water.  Turn down the heat.  Let simmer for 15 minutes, or so, until the orzo is cooked.  Add more salt, pepper, cayenne or oregano, if desired.  Add more water if you like a thinner soup.  (You’ll also need to add a small amount of water when you reheat it.)

    Tip: Let the soysage par-thaw to make it easier to slice!

    Your soup will stay fresh in the fridge for about 5 days.  It makes a great take-to-work/school lunch.  We hope you enjoy it as much as our family.


  2. That was My Fault: Words you should say.

    November 27, 2013 by admin

    Everybody makes mistakes.  Everybody has those days.”Photos-of-Old-Car-Accidents-2

    We reference these lyrics regularly in our home because kids need to realize that things don’t always work out.  Things happen, both big and small that can throw a seemingly lock-solid plan into disarray.  We want our kiddos to realize this possibility.

    As Plum and Bluey grow, we find we also need to utilize an additional phrase:

    That was my fault.

    This is a simple, factual acknowledgement of responsibility for an error.  It’s a phrase we could stand to hear more often from co-workers, friends, and leaders– as well as our own kids.  It’s the step after the simple “I’m sorry”, where you claim ownership for what went awry.  So we’re working to use it at home when appropriate, in the hope that our children will catch on to it.

    “Sorry, Bluey!  It was my fault for promising we’d play outside today when I hadn’t checked the weather forecast.”

    “Sorry Plum!  That was my fault for not watching where I was going and bumping into you.”

    CB063014We think it is important to teach children to not just be able to handle adversity, but to know it’s okay to admit that sometimes it’s our fault when things go wrong.  You should just own it.

    And then you should move on.  Lingering over what went wrong doesn’t do anyone any good.


  3. A Piece of the Holiday

    November 25, 2013 by admin

    IMG_1088Our TR family usually waits until the second week of December to cut down our Christmas tree.  But for many families it is tradition to put up a tree the weekend after Thanksgiving.

    Since the holidays are upon us, we wanted to share one of our TR traditions with you:  saving the tree trunk shaving of each and every Christmas tree.

    In order to keep you tree as fresh as possible, it is recommended that you trim about ¼ inch off the bottom of the trunk.    And even if you cut your own tree, it is most always necessary to trim it to size or to ensure that it stands even.

    So now you have a perfect little wood shaving.  Why toss it?  We get out a sharpie and write down the date directly on the wood piece.  And we stash it away so that every new season, we can take out these bits of trunk and remember our past holidays and the tree that graced our home.IMG_2363

    Some other ideas:

    • A-fix each family holiday picture to the wood cutting.
    • Have your kids decorate the shaving with paints, glitter, etc…
    • If you want you can cut more than one sliver, and do different things with each one.

     

    Do you have a holiday tradition that you’d like to share with us?


  4. Sewing Circle

    November 23, 2013 by admin

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    As the chilly and rainy November weather kicks in, we are upping our indoor activities to help transition to winter life.  One recent Saturday, after running a few errands in the morning, we were left with an afternoon at home.   It was rainy and chilly out, so many of our go-to ideas – play at the park, walk the dog, bike to the corner store- were out.

    IMG_3377As much as we love to settle in with a fun movie, we try to limit television watching.  So what to do?  Bluey, ever the inventor, suggested that we make a stuffed animal cat.

    Well, we’ve never made a stuffed animal before!  But no time like the present to start.

    We bust out the sewing kit, find some spare fabric and start threading needles.  With limited planning, we are off on a new, crafty adventure!  Soon enough, the whole family is sitting around the table, sewing something.  Bluey’s getting his start on sewing parts of his cat and Plum is making special accents for her room.

    The result is a simple, low-key afternoon.  We’re not saying our homemade stuffy will be mistaken for a Gund.  But we made it ourselves, we made it together, we had fun and we learned a new skill.

    Next time the weather has you holed up, resist the urge to reach for the remote, and get out your sewing supplies.  Who knows what you’ll create?


  5. The Incredible Bulk

    November 21, 2013 by admin

    bulk-food-314Bulk buying seems like such a good idea, you might think thrifty folk like ourselves shop this way regularly.  But we don’t do it.  Why not? Well, for two main reasons.  Firstly, buying in bulk is only of use if you have the capacity to correctly store items for the long term.  Secondly, bulk prices don’t always beat the smaller quantities in the per unit price.

    We don’t recommend bulk purchases for most perishable items.  Many foods are susceptible to a variety of calamities from mold, to vermin, to going stale.  If you aren’t armed with the correct storage solutions for all your foods, you’ll end up tossing bulk items before you get to eat them.

    Our fruits and vegetables are purchased either fresh or frozen.  We typically buy only enough for a short period of time.  We like to keep our grains, nuts and beans in the kitchen, so we can be aware of what’s on hand.  Therefore, we purchase what will fit in our storage jars that we can easily stash in the cabinets.

    We only buy food in bulk when we are certain that we’ll use the items up in a few weeks.  For instance, we’ll buy bigger bags of flour and sugar around the holidays as we have a good idea about how many cookies we’ll make over a span of five or six weeks.

    We have discovered that the safest bet for bulk purchasing is non-food items. Cleaning supplies don’t expire; so feel free to fill a closet with them!


  6. Advice Books

    November 19, 2013 by admin

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    There typically comes an age when all children have questions about physical development and social standing.  Kids don’t necessarily want to discuss all of their concerns with their parents.  And honestly, a lot of the coming-of-age conversations also make parents squirmy.

    We are not suggesting that kids and parents should avoid difficult discussions.  But books can be a fantastic companion to family talks.

    Our Plum began middle school this year.  She is deep in the thicket of changing friendships and a developing physique.  Our TR home is rife with tween angst.  And there are many times that our daughter reacts to our advice as if we are from an alien planet.  Or she chooses to ignore us entirely and stomps into her room.

    So what to do?  Well, we found books that essentially mirror what we’ve been telling our dear Plum all along.  In particular, the advice and activity series from American Girl. Plum devours the books and takes great comfort in the non-parental guidance.  She’ll come from her room, pointing to a passage and she’ll declare, “See!  This is exactly what happens to me!”

    It has been our experience that these books actually open the door to more conversations with our Plum.  And we are very grateful for that fact.  Now, if there were only a series for boys…..


  7. Glenwood Park

    November 17, 2013 by admin

    We were so pleased to have recently found another fun park in our town.  Glenwood Park is an absolute oasis from the “Kaboomed” repetition of many other local playgrounds.  We were happy to not see a single bit of plastic during out time here.  It is a truly unique experience to explore Glenwood Park.  IMG_1522

    IMG_1509This park, designed by Jens Jensen in 1949, immediately fires up a child’s imagination.  There are rocks jetting out of the earth, small caves to explore, tree limbs to collect, and vines to swing.  It is remarkable that such a rustic, old-school park is allowed to remain in its original, ‘wild’ state- given people’s desire to sanitize and ‘modernize’ city parks.

    Tip:  You’ll definitely want to keep an eye on younger kids until they are familiar with the sloping landscape.

    We had the park to ourselves, save for a few adults walking their pups or out for a jog.  There is only street parking convenient to this “wilderness” area.  And there are no restroom facilities in the immediate vicinity.

    Our family had a great time exploring this wild space.  We are all eager to return and see what other discoveries we can make during our play.

     

     

     


  8. Hungry Kids

    November 15, 2013 by admin


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    We worry about the hungry people in our community- especially the kids.  More than 16 million kids in America are food insecure.  For many of these children, school is the only place they’ll get a chance to eat.

    Whether a student is food insecure or not, it is well established that proper nutrition is part of the path to success in school.

    But not all schools are working effectively to ensure all kids are fed enough to be ready to learn.

    If you haven’t read Ms. Catherine Capellaro’s article on recent incidents in a Madison school cafeteria, we strongly encourage you to do so now!    A child is not only not given lunch, but that untouched lunch is then thrown in the trash.

    How on earth is it okay to have a policy that leaves a child hungry and tosses perfectly “good” food in a garbage pail?  What message does this send to the students of our schools, when employees would rather throw out edible food than allow a kid to eat?  It tells those kids that they are worth less than a plate of spaghetti.  Less than a hamburger.

    We strongly urge all of you to contact the Madison Metropolitan School District to protest this absurd policy that ranks throwing away perfectly good food above giving a kid the food they need to grow.  And we encourage you to check on your own school’s policy.  A quick Google search shows that this is happening across our Nation.

    Tip1:  contact information if you wish to protest locally – https://foodsvcweb.madison.k12.wi.us/node/27

    We further urge you into action on a national scale: it is time for this Nation to declare that young people are valuable.   No student in any school should go hungry because of some random policy, or because a form wasn’t properly signed, or because their parents weren’t able to add more money to their child’s account swiftly enough.

    Tip2:  Use this page to find the email, phone or postal contacts for elected officials at the state and national level – http://www.usa.gov/Contact/Elected.shtml

    Young people don’t often know all the routes to gain access to food.  They rely on adults around them to steer them in the right direction, and to ensure that they are fed.

     


  9. Guns And Gunplay

    November 13, 2013 by admin

    We recently had an experience at the park:

    royalty-free-gun-clipart-illustration-225847A young boy of about five, that we just met at the park, has a transforming toy firearm.  The toy is gleaming white and silver.  It switches from a toy gun to a toy knife.  The boy holds his toy gun with pride and points it directly at Bluey’s head.  The boy shouts out “Bbbbbang!  Bbbbang!” And pretend rounds are fired into our son’s head.  The boy declares with glee, “You’re dead!  You’re dead!”  and he proceeds to push Bluey to the ground and then turns to fire on his next victim.  The mother of this child is on the perimeter of the play area.  She shouts out to her son, “If you hit anyone with that gun, it is put away.  No second chances.”  Her son continues his pretend slaughter of playing youngsters.

    Children have participated in variations of “good guy vs. bad guy” for centuries.  But when we allow them to run rampant through a playground, pretend killing children with enthusiasm and getting physically aggressive with each other, we are teaching them those behaviors are acceptable.  If you are going to let your kids play with guns, we think that there should be some very clear rules about acceptable behavior and where the toy is allowed.

    We are very anti-gun, regardless of gender.  You won’t find a toy gun in our house.  We support gun control and our children know that they are not allowed to play with guns.  We believe that when you allow a toy gun into the mix, you are saying that guns are okay.  It is not a message we wish to pass onto our children.

    But we understand that not everyone shares our views.  We don’t prevent our children from playing with people that think differently.  And we try to teach them how to deal respectively and intelligently with anyone that presents opposing positions or behavior.  But this playground experience left us a bit stunned.

    What would you have done in this situation, regardless of your viewpoint of gun control?


  10. Legos!

    November 11, 2013 by admin

    IMG_3271Madison College (MC) recently hosted a Lego league tournament for our area.  They had about 40 teams of elementary and middle school students participating in the exciting competition.

    Since we love Legos and new experiences, we decided to venture down to MC to see what this tournament had to offer.

    It was beyond obvious that MC was enthusiastic about hosting the event.  There were numerous friendly volunteers that greeted everyone as they entered.  Signs were placed throughout the building guiding crowds to various areas.  And everything seemed to be moving along basically on schedule.

    Unfortunately, there were some glaring issues that made this a very unfriendly event for spectators.  We stayed for about 45 minutes and then left, at the urging of our kids to “just go home.”

    TIP: Don’t ignore your kids when they tell you they are ‘done’ with an activity.  Sometimes things don’t quite go the way you planned.  Listen to your kids, think of a way to turn the day around, and head off in a new direction.

    The lighting was horrendous during the opening ceremony.  All overhead lights were out as the teams paraded in with their handmade signs.  It was so dark, you could barely make out the kids faces, let alone enjoy their handmade signage.

    There was nothing interactive offered to satisfy a curious, young spectator.  We envisioned an area that would perhaps pose a little Lego challenge for visitors to complete, with a tiny sticker or lollipop as an award for finishing.  Or some boxes of Legos left out for kids to tinker with and enjoy.

    In the pit areas, if one or two volunteers had been staged to engage visitors, and give information on what was happening and why, it would have made that experience much more fulfilling.

    We applaud MC for hosting this event and for their dedication to encouraging youth to pursue these types of endeavors.  We just hope that next year, they give a little more thought to the crowd that is watching.