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  1. How To Make An American Quilt

    September 24, 2014 by admin

    There is usually so much going on at your local public library!

    IMG_2300Bluey just started taking a quilting class at our branch, and it is a tremendous experience!  He loves playing with patterns and trying to make his own designs (cats, natch!).  He gets to share and learn with a dozen or so kids from the neighborhood.  Bluey is learning how to operate an electric sewing machine.  And when he’s finished, he’ll bring home a small quilt that he designed and made.  What a  great program!

    IMG_2301He gets so much out of this class– and it’s all free!!

    A team of neighborhood quilters are in charge- bringing in samples of quilts, talking about patterns, and helping kids run the sewing machine.  It is a real community endeavor and a great opportunity for young and old to meet their neighbors.

    Our local library offers classes for people of all ages in all manner of subjects- art, literature, computers, foreign languages- you name it!  Most libraries around the country offer similar programs and they are all typically free of charge.

    So take a minute to check your library’s bulletin board or website to see what new adventures await you and your family!


  2. News On Your Doorstep

    August 6, 2014 by admin

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    We heard a recent story on NPR about the decline in newspaper delivery kids throughout the country. It got us thinking about this dying trade

    When TRMom and TRDad were kids, many of our peers delivered newspapers. TRDad was a paperboy for the Newark Star-Ledger starting in the fourth grade.  He did a final run of his route in the summer between ninth grade and tenth.

    Newspaper routes offer a host of opportunities for kids.

    They get paid for their work.  This is important as kids quickly learn the value of money.  Mom and Dad aren’t going to bankroll every trip to the corner store, and every pizza with friends.

    Kids have to learn how to run a business and take care of customers. Some customers are kind; some are not. Some are very picky. And some are hard to track down when the bill is due. Others may offer conversation and interesting insights into their lives.

    They have to become independent. It’s their job. Their little business enterprise. They have to get out of bed to deliver a morning route, or get home from school in time for an afternoon paper (there aren’t too many of those afternoon presses anymore.)

    Kids quickly learn to map their neighborhood, learn how to dress for different types of weather, and even develop some basic bike repair skills.

    But these opportunities are disappearing from our American landscape. The majority of people get their news over the internet.  But when they choose paper delivery, most newspapers end up delivered by adults with a car.

    Young kids can’t get these sorts of simple jobs anymore. Our Plum is regularly wishing there was a way for her to earn some money on a regular basis (beyond babysitting). But parents don’t want their kids roaming the neighborhood, let alone at 6 A.M.and perhaps in the dark.  Not only are our kids missing out on the early development of pride in one’s work, self reliance, and the importance of a dollar- but we’re quickly losing yet another bit of the printed word.


  3. Tree Lover

    May 23, 2014 by admin

    Our Bluey fell in love recently.

    With a tree.IMG_5770

    It was love at first sight. He climbed all over the tree for quite some time, tested out branches and found a great place to sit up on a limb.  Then he cried for ten minutes straight when he had to say goodbye to his new favorite tree, even with the knowledge that he would get to see it again the very next day.

    We love that our children have such affection for trees.  It’s a feeling we cultivate. Trees are such beautiful beings, and so important to ecosystems everywhere.

    When we are out and about, we point out beautiful and interesting trees- same as we do with cool cars, funky buildings and birds.  They are all a wonderful part of our world.

    Many trees are ancient. Everyday we pass trees that stood during World War II. Or World War I. Or the Blizzard of ’88 (1888, that is.)  And we discuss regularly, the usefulness of trees- that they provide homes and food for so many critters. Trees regulate temperatures and hold on to topsoil, and so much more.

    IMG_1673Our hope is that our children will always feel a deep connection to trees and nature.  The world needs trees, and trees need their defenders and lovers.


  4. Dream Bikes

    March 23, 2014 by admin

    Oh, those growing kids!  With her ever-increasing height, our Plum needed a new bicycle for this spring.

    So the search was on for the most affordable bike- something she’d be happy with, that would be reliable, and hopefully would allow her some room to grow.  We take a rather meticulous path to finding the best value for a major purpose, so we started checking out the stores that might have inexpensive models.  We also started looking about for any used bikes that were on the market.IMG_1600

    We stopped at a great local bicycle shop in our neighborhood- Revolution Cycles!  We love the crew at Revolution, and knew they would help us out.  They made a few recommendations about what size bike would work for our Plum.  But unfortunately, they were currently sold out of used bikes that would fit her.

    What to do?  We asked Revolution for ideas and they immediately suggested Dream Bikes.

    Dream Bikes is a non-profit that situates their stores in underserved neighborhoods.  They take in used bikes, fix them up and sell them to the public, using the profits from the sales to offer good jobs and training to local teens who make the repairs and run the bike shops.

    We headed over to Dream Bikes and were astounded by the great selection and service we found.  Our salesperson, David, was patient with our Plum, listening to her wants and showing her a number of bikes that he thought might fit the bill.  Her final choice- a vintage Schwinn Mirada (the same model TRDad rode for over a decade)- was decked out with a rear double basket and a horn, all for an amazingly low price.IMG_5237

    We can’t recommend Dream Bikes enough to anyone in the Madison or Milwaukee areas looking for a new bike.  We are thrilled to have found a place offering great bikes at fantastic prices that provides excellent service and contributes to the community.


  5. Hungry Kids

    November 15, 2013 by admin


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    We worry about the hungry people in our community- especially the kids.  More than 16 million kids in America are food insecure.  For many of these children, school is the only place they’ll get a chance to eat.

    Whether a student is food insecure or not, it is well established that proper nutrition is part of the path to success in school.

    But not all schools are working effectively to ensure all kids are fed enough to be ready to learn.

    If you haven’t read Ms. Catherine Capellaro’s article on recent incidents in a Madison school cafeteria, we strongly encourage you to do so now!    A child is not only not given lunch, but that untouched lunch is then thrown in the trash.

    How on earth is it okay to have a policy that leaves a child hungry and tosses perfectly “good” food in a garbage pail?  What message does this send to the students of our schools, when employees would rather throw out edible food than allow a kid to eat?  It tells those kids that they are worth less than a plate of spaghetti.  Less than a hamburger.

    We strongly urge all of you to contact the Madison Metropolitan School District to protest this absurd policy that ranks throwing away perfectly good food above giving a kid the food they need to grow.  And we encourage you to check on your own school’s policy.  A quick Google search shows that this is happening across our Nation.

    Tip1:  contact information if you wish to protest locally – https://foodsvcweb.madison.k12.wi.us/node/27

    We further urge you into action on a national scale: it is time for this Nation to declare that young people are valuable.   No student in any school should go hungry because of some random policy, or because a form wasn’t properly signed, or because their parents weren’t able to add more money to their child’s account swiftly enough.

    Tip2:  Use this page to find the email, phone or postal contacts for elected officials at the state and national level – http://www.usa.gov/Contact/Elected.shtml

    Young people don’t often know all the routes to gain access to food.  They rely on adults around them to steer them in the right direction, and to ensure that they are fed.

     


  6. Perspective

    November 3, 2013 by admin

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    Yes, we’re a month out from Thanksgiving.  But you don’t need a traditional holiday to take a moment to sit back and reflect on why you are grateful for the life that you live.

    If we’re honest, we can probably all say that we have dreams we know won’t actualize, places we long to visit, time we wished we had more of, disappointments that still taste bitter.

    That is life.  Please don’t linger in the muck or judge yourself by your worst moments.  There is so much in the simple day-to-day that is worth celebrating.

    Here are some teensy and some huge things for which we are grateful:

    • Coffee – The smell!  And knowing that warm mug will soon be craddled in your hands.
    • Children’s laughter – It is contagious, true, and pure.
    • Frozen pizza – Seriously!  It is cheap and indulgent.
    • A paycheck – Sure, we live paycheck to paycheck.  But with a tight budget, we have just enough money to support our family.
    • A home – ‘Nough said.  Many don’t have a place to settle.
    • Playgrounds – Free access to fun, exercise, and the outdoors.
    • Libraries – Free access to education and fun.
    • Gardens – Cheap way to feed your family and support farm-to-table.
    • Love – Right?  It makes the world go ‘round.
    • Music – Inspiring, often free, and entirely enjoyable.
    • Critters – Unconditional love and mostly entertaining.
    • Health – Not to ever be taken for granted!

     

    Taking a moment to remember these things, no matter how minor they might be, helps us to focus on life worth living!  And to acknowledge that we are indeed, very lucky to be here.


  7. Jenifer Street Market

    October 12, 2013 by admin

    OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAOne day, we felt cooped up in the house and decided we needed to get outside.  We wanted to go somewhere but we were a little cash poor that day—so what to do?

    IMG_0708We headed for a locally owned market about a mile from our house- Jenifer Street Market (Jeny St Market).  Its distance meant that we could walk or bike to get there.  Since this is a small market, we were confident that we could find something to buy for the bit of change dedicated to this expedition.

    Walking and biking the streets of your own neighborhood allows for many opportunities to meet people, to notice buildings, trees and businesses you might not have seen before—to just BE a part of your neighborhood.

    Jeny St Market is a friendly place.  After our initial jaunt became a recurring event, the workers began to recognize our little family when we’d visit.  They started to notice our purchasing habits, and to remember stories that they’d heard from us at previous meetings.  We became ‘regulars.’

    Our trips to Jeny St Market continue to this day, all year round (weather permitting).  We love it as a quick destination, where we know we’ll see people we enjoy, and we get a little treat that we like.  On the way, we’ll make new friends and discover new secret spaces.  And become even more connected to our neighbors.


  8. Museum Memberships

    September 30, 2013 by admin

    IMG_0849We’ve spoken at length about how important museum memberships are to support the Arts and to partake of the associated benefits.  But lately, this position has been tested.

    We are proud members of Milwaukee Public Museum (MPM).  Membership to this museum allows you to visit ASTC museums for free, or dramatically reduced rates.  But there is fine print that we didn’t understand until recently (not the fault of MPM).

    If participating museums are within 90 miles of each other, they are “excluded from the Program unless this exclusion is lifted by mutual agreement.”  And to further exacerbate you, “90 miles is measured ‘as the crow flies’ and not by driving distance.”  But wait, there is more:  this rule is “based on your museum’s location,” – the spot where you have membership.  The description then goes on to explain that “based on residence, you must live more than 90 miles away ‘as the crow flies’ from the museum you wish to visit.”

    I’m sure you are as confused as we were when trying to comprehend the rules?  See this hyperlink to help you!

    Now, since we assume you aren’t a crow, and since you can’t use googlemaps to confirm distance, how on earth do you figure out if you are within 90 miles?  Shame on ASTC for adding such ridiculous restrictions when they claim to “promote equity and diversity by providing members with resources and tools to increase the number of individuals from underrepresented and/or underserved groups who visit and work in museums.

    We understand that museums rely, in great part, on their admission fees to continue their programs.  But at the end of the day, we would be quite surprised to see that the admission of ASTC members really breaks any museum’s bottom line.  We encourage them to lift the restriction.  It is absurd.

    Are we not supposed to be neighborly?  Or are our goals not to encourage visitation, education, and the spread of favorable reviews by visitors?  Most people looking for free or discounted admission aren’t doing so just to “mess with the system.”  These are families, or lower income people that can’t afford the typically outrageous admission costs; i.e. the target audience of the ASTC mission .  For example, to visit Discovery World in Milwaukee, our family would have to pay $60 for the day.  This does not include gas from Madison, food, or parking.

    And if you are going to enforce the 90 mile rule, rather than lifting the exclusion, be forthright about it.  Put a list of museums that you will not honor on your website.  We have visited Discovery World twice in the past 2 years without any trouble.  Until just recently when someone decided that they would be the mighty enforcer of the “as the crow flies” and subsequently ruined our weekend plans.

    Of course, if you go to Discovery World’s site, they encourage you to become members to enjoy the benefits of ASTC.  But these benefits are minimal if they only apply to people that are able to drive two hours, and afford the associated costs, to get to a museum for the day.

    Our only advice would be to become a member to a museum with caution and always call ahead to the place that you plan to visit.  Then take notes on who you speak with, as there seems to be nothing but confusion about how to enforce the ASTC policy.

    We hope that the ASTC and their member museums will see the value of increased museum attendance vs. trying to squeeze additional entry fees from the people least able to afford it.


  9. Confidence and Conversation

    September 26, 2013 by admin

    Our son will talk to anyone about anything.  He is not intimidated by adults.  Plum is equally engaging, but takes a while to warm up to people.

    Our kid’s willingness to engage has opened many doorways for them and afforded them some very unique experiences and friendships.

    IMG_2139When they saw a maintenance person working on a fountain at a garden, they ran up to him for a closer look at his project.  It turned out that the maintenance person also tends the Koi in the rose garden.  He invited our kids to feed the Koi their breakfast.

    When Bluey got chatty with a man in the Domes gift shop, it turned out that he is their marketing director.  He told us of some “secret” new displays in the Domes and of a brand new bike path over a train yard on the nearby property.

    Our kids have good friends at the Hyvee Madison #1, the Green Owl Café, the Victory Café, Oregon NAPA Auto Parts, and more.  IMG_1816These are folks that greet our kids by name and speak to them as equal participants in any conversation.  They add a tremendous value to the growth of our children and we are very grateful.

    Many parents hold their kids back from talking to adults, especially in settings where there might be some expectation of “knowing your place.”  This reservation harkens back to the adage of children should be seen and not heard.  We say break that cycle and allow your kids to deepen their relationship with their world.


  10. Union Family

    September 22, 2013 by admin

    image_Terrace_chairs_clairemelin_01When our family moved to Madison, we met many new friends. When conversations turned to ‘what to do in Madison’, most of these friends recommended going to the UW Memorial Union (the Union). Guess what?  They were right!  The Union is a great place to visit!

    Situated on the shores of Lake Mendota, on the State Street end of the University of Wisconsin campus, the Memorial Union is a beautiful building with many things to do and see. We were initially hesitant to visit the Union, because it seemed like it was a student thing, a student place.  While many students congregate there, you will find you are not the only non-students enjoying all the Union has to offer.

    One of the things we like best is to go to the Union for lunch at der Ratheskeller.  Der Ratheskeller features a number of delicious sandwich and soup options, along with what may well be the Best french fries on the planet.  Meals are inexpensive and filling– we usually have leftover fries and such to bring home.  No one in our family complains when it is announced that we’ll be eating at the Union.  On Badger and Packer game days, you’ll see the game on a giant screen TV while you eat.  At night you can listen to open mikes, or local bands perform on the small indoor stage. IMG_0416

    After lunch, we like an ice cream or shake from the Daily Scoop.  The Scoop features UW’s famous Babcock Hall ice cream, and the Blue Moon shakes are a favorite of ours (but all the flavors are excellent.

    Apart from all the eating, do explore the building and grounds.  Upstairs, you’ll find student art galleries and study spaces, as well as offices of community/ campus organizations like the Hoofers.

    The Terrace is not to be missed.  With seating for hundreds (in the classic Union Terrace chairs!), the Terrace offers a beautiful place to eat, while people and bird watching on the lakeshore.  We’ve met friendly fisherman, charming foreign exchange students, and beautiful dogs and parrots on the Terrace.  Frequently, we like to dip a toe in the water and watch the ducks swim about.  During warm weather, the Terrace also features several additional places to please the palate- including the Brat Stand.  The Terrace concert series brings nationally known acts to play free of charge, so watch the calendar for a fun free show to attend!

    Don’t be scared off from the Union!  It shouldn’t be missed.IMG_0276