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August, 2012

  1. We Go To The Hidden Place

    August 30, 2012 by admin

    The Eagle Mound

    The Madison area is blessed with a large collection of native mounds, many of which are preserved in city parks.  A nice grouping that may have escaped your notice is located in Vilas Park, right behind the zoo.  We stumbled upon them one day–six rounded mounds, one oblong, and one fabulous eagle- when heavy parking at the zoo lot forced us to park on a side street further from the zoo then we typically venture.

    The mounds are in great shape.  Exploring these fascinating structures is a simple way to discuss history with your kids.  How did they get here?  Who created them?  What do they represent?  It’s a chance to discuss who came before us, and what legacy our society might leave behind. Indian mounds are found throughout the USA!  What a fabulous and educational destination to add to any road trip.  Check to see which ones are located near your home.

    Tip1:  There’s also a nifty art-deco style mermaid fountain to check out near the mounds.  It doesn’t function anymore, but it’s still way cool.

    A small plaque explains the mounds.

    To see these  Vilas Park area Indian mounds, and the mermaid fountain, park on Erin and Wingra Streets.  You can spot the eagle mound from the sidewalk.  There’s a small plaque that explains that the mounds overlooked a village, long, long ago.

    Then just follow the path in the center of the park down to the zoo entrance.  It’s a fun little side jaunt during a trip to the zoo.

    The Mermaid Fountain

    Tip2:  If you continue on to the zoo, be sure to say “Hi!” to the red pandas.  They’re our favorite.


  2. School Days

    August 28, 2012 by admin

    School starts here next week and we are shocked and dismayed at the high level of fees required to get our elementary student into ‘free’ public school.  What is going on here?

    Public school is defined as:  “a free tax-supported school controlled by a local governmental authority.”  But we’ve moved quite far from “free” in this country.   When we were grammar school students (not too long ago), all that was expected was that you’d arrive to school with a couple of pencils and a small box of crayons, maybe a notebook.  Fees crept in at the higher grades- a gym uniform, musical instrument rentals, small-lab fees in chemistry.  But even then, they were pretty manageable.  No more.

    Our Plum pays $35 to register for school.  She is then charged $5 for school supplies.  Separate from these fees is a  classroom supply list, which could ring up to over $25 in additional costs.  Why are we paying for school supplies while also being asked to purchase school supplies?  It’s like bringing your own coffee grounds, milk, and cup to Starbucks to then pay them $6 to make you a cappuccino.  Insane.

    Apparently, students in some school have it much worse.  But the fact that people have it worse somewhere else is never an excuse for injustice.

    Plum attends an urban school in a very diverse neighborhood.  We are not at all poor when compared to many in our surrounding community.   But we do struggle to make ends meet in our family.  We do without many perks that other people take for granted.  We find it hard to hand over approximately $60 at the start of the year.  If Plum wants to take violin this year, we’ll need to scrounge up an additional $50.  And any school trips will be extra as well, usually around $5 a pop.  We are able to cut here, and tighten there, to pay for these fees.   But how do our struggling neighbors pay for their kids’ public education?  We know many of Plum’s classmates are concerned about putting food on the table, let alone paying for public school.  We realize there is a waiver that can be applied for at the start of each school year.  But why should people have to seek out a financial waiver in order to attend public school?  Attending school should be a given right, not something that anyone has to argue or struggle to do.

    As Plum ages into middle school and high school, these fees will become much larger.  And if she plans to participate in any social activities, the fees will become exorbitant for our family.  So now, as people used to only have to do for college tuition, we’ll begin saving away for her middle school and high school year fees.  It is anyone’s guess how we’ll prepare for the cost of college at the same time.

     


  3. Weirdos From Another Planet

    August 26, 2012 by admin

    “Getting an inch of snow is like winning 10 cents in the lottery.”

    Our entire family loves Calvin & Hobbes.

    Our complete series of the comic strip is very well worn with some pages stuck together due to chocolate milk spit out in glee at the hi-jinx of Calvin & Hobbes.  We continuously loop through the 3 massive books.  It is a now a ritual to read a little at the start and end of the day. (And sometimes more around lunch)  We never tire of it.

    Bill Watterson is not only a talented artist, he is also a tremendously gifted writer.  He manages to capture in the form of a daily comic panel, the purity and total complexity of being a kid.  Calvin’s interactions with bullies, his crush/enmity for neighbor Susie Derkins, his attempts to escape this world into one of his own design, his efforts to try to understand his parents-  all of these sub-themes continue to resonate in our family, nearly twenty years after the strip ceased publication.

    And there’s social and political commentary, too, that’s years ahead of its time.  Many of Watterson’s strips, you would swear were written in the last two years.  They are perfectly on target.

    We also love, and commend, Watterson’s decision to withhold licensing of Calvin&Hobbes. This means that our young readers can simply enjoy the comic in its purest form.  We’re not picturing the movie-version of Calvin, or hearing Hobbes on TV, or sleeping on a Calvin pillowcase.

    Then rather than drag Calvin out into a sad retread of the same strips, Watterson pulled the plug, after less than ten-years worth of Calvin’s adventures.  We also recognize his commitment to the integrity of his work.


  4. 57 Channels and Nothing’s On

    August 24, 2012 by admin

    What’s Your Child’s Favorite TV Station?

    Our Bluey (age 3 1/2) doesn’t understand this question and has no answer for it.   And that’s how we like it.

    It’s not that he doesn’t watch TV.  We’re not anti-TV.  But we are concerned about the way that TV can shape your life.  We have made a concerted effort that our family’s life will be influenced, as much as possible, by forces beyond corporate TV.

    We have several points of conflict with traditional TV viewing:

    *Commercials-  Young children are not yet equipped with the skills to interpret and deconstruct commercials, so we want Bluey and Plum to see commercials in small intervals. This way we can monitor and discuss the adverts with them.

    *Age Inappropriate Advertising-  We often find that shows which are geared towards younger kids tend to have commercials for other shows, video games, and movies that are rated for an older child than our Bluey.

    *TV Schedules Your Day-  For us, there is nothing sadder than to hear a child say that they need to be home at a certain time to see their favorite show.

    *Unlimited Hours of Operation-  There’s always something on- even if it’s terrible.

    And yet we, like most of our adult friends, enjoy watching TV.  As we said, we’re not anti-TV, we’re anti-lettingTVcorporationsrunyourlife.

    So we wanted to create a system where:

    *Our kids can view shows which have parental approval

    *Our kids learn about advertising and how to process it with a critical eye

    *The entire family watches TV for a limited time

    *No one has their day scheduled by the TV Guide

    How did we accomplish these goals?  DVDs!

    DVD’s put you in charge of your family’s viewing habits.  Commercials are at the beginning of the disc and can usually be skipped.  If not, they can always be muted.  You choose what time of day you watch and for how long each member of your family watches TV.  Neither you, nor your kids, are slaves to what is ‘Hot’ right now.  We (the adults of the TR family) just started watching The Sopranos Season 1.  There is no chance any inappropriate content will sneak into your TV viewing.

    Plus, we save money our cable bill by ordering the smallest possible TV service.  We take this savings and use it to get the DVD’s that our family is ready for.

    Tip: Your local library probably has free DVDs you can check out.  Drop by and see what the selection is.

    Take back control of your family’s TV habits!


  5. Small is Beautiful

    August 22, 2012 by admin

    Have you noticed the mini houses that stand in front of many homes in Madison?

    As you walk around the city, be sure to keep an eye out for these little wooden libraries set back from the street.  They are the Little Free Libraries,stocked with random books for all ages that are donated by the people in the neighborhood.  Open up a little house and take a look.  The books are free for anyone of any age.  There’s no membership, no fee– just the simple expectation that you’ll return the book (or a different one) to keep the library well stocked.

    Although Bluey has found a few books to read from these libraries, our experience so far has been that it is harder to stumble upon a book for a child/teen then for an adult.  But that is okay.  Part of the added fun to an outdoor explore is chancing upon these libraries and seeing what delights are held within. And with so many of these libraries around, perhaps we’ll find one that is a goldmine of kid and YA literature!

    Although the movement is based in Madison,Wisconsin, you can find Little Free Libraries all over the world!  Just consult their map to find one near you!

    We think these libraries are a wonderful addition to the world.  There are already more Little Free Libraries than Carnegie Libraries, and the movement just keeps growing.  There is only good to be had when you bring books and people together, everywhere.

     

     

     


  6. Homemade Love

    August 20, 2012 by admin

    Simmering tomatoes for marinara

    There are so many things that you eat every week that you can easily make at home.  It will increase the overall health of your family as you have complete control over ingredients while eliminating the preservatives and fillers found in may pre-made foods.

    We consciously chucked our microwave over 7 years ago in an effort to make more food from scratch and to save money.  Sure, microwaves are easy!  Right?  You just pop something in there and ‘presto!’  A few minutes later, it’s done.   But microwaved food is expensive and filled with preservatives and chemical enhancers that you don’t need.  Any microwaveable frozen meal is also significantly more expensive than purchasing the ingredients and creating the dish on your own.  And no need to fall for the ‘reheating’ excuse as a reason to keep the ol’ nuker.  Reheating food on the stovetop or in the oven is very quick and easy.

    Tip:  Most microwavable meals tend to be individual serving size.  If you cook from scratch, you’ll most likely end up with  leftovers.  Your homemade meal will provide you with a few lunches or snacks down the line, all for less money upfront.

    We have certain recurring items in our menu planning that are always homemade:

    • Bread : Easy and delicious, and nothing will make your home smell better than rising and baking bread!
    • Marinara sauce : So simple, you’ll embarrassed to admit you ever bought pre-made!
    • Hummus:  Making it yourself allows you to mix in your favorite flavors: roasted red pepper, or horse radish, or Kalamatas?  The list goes on…
    • Tzatziki: This fabulous sauce takes just minutes to prepare fresh and it can’t be beat!
    • Pizza: Make the dough, use your own marinara, and add your favorite toppings and cheese!

    Homemade pizza with vegetarian pepperoni!

     

    We use fresh whole tomatoes for our marinara.  We boil the garbanzo beans for our hummus.  These choices originated as part of our effort to avoid BPA in cans.  But we quickly saw how much tastier the end result was when the items are fresh made.  (Yes!  You can find BPA free canned tomatoes, etc., but you will pay a significant up-charge for that assurance.  And since we are on a budget, we had to seek out different solutions.)

    As much as we have always enjoyed cooking, we went full steam ahead with homemade food when Bluey was born.  We didn’t want his first tastes of food to be something processed.  Nor did we want to pay someone else to provide a product we could easily create on our own.  For instance, it isn’t hard to skin an apple, dice the fruit, boil the bits, and press it all through a strainer, or toss it in the food processor.  You can then freeze your homemade applesauce in a BPA free ice cube tray with a lid (or this one is great, too) and store it for up to 2 months.  The ice-cube trays make great baby-sized portions that thaw or heat up in a flash.  And it was so comforting to know the exact ingredients of every morsel our son was eating.

    We find that cooking from scratch is more of a mindset adjustment than anything else.  It isn’t horribly time consuming if you plan it out.  It doesn’t take a degree in the culinary arts to create wholesome, fresh meals.  It is about believing that you can do it, and then deciding that you’re going to do it.  Give it a try and allow yourself to succeed!


  7. YouTubing

    August 19, 2012 by admin

    Although we don’t normally watch Sesame Street, we have sampled some of the celebrity guest appearances to share with the kiddoes.  Our kids love music, and by watching just these snippets on YouTube, we are able to manage their TV viewing, while still allowing them to experience these fun songs.  Here are a few of our favorites that are the ones our kids remember and ask for every now and then.

    We find these performances irresistible!

    1. Jason Mraz singing “Outdoors
    2. Katy Perry singing “Hot n Cold
    3. Will.i.am singing “What I am
    4. Adam Sandler singing “A song about Elmo

    Many of these songs have found their way onto our itunes, in their original non-Sesame Street form, enlarging our kids appreciation and knowledge of current music.  And they are songs that don’t drive the adults insane (win-win!).

     


  8. If You Should Meet An Elephant

    August 18, 2012 by admin

    Today was our very first trip to the Milwaukee County Zoo.  What an amazing experience that was made all the better by the fact that our trip was essentially free, plus the cost of gas to get there!  We like that a lot!

    At the Milwaukee Zoo, the admission price, not including the parking fee, can really empty out your wallet.  But since we are members of the International Crane Foundation which is part of the Associate of Zoos and Aquariums, we got in for FREE.  We parked on the street for free and walked three blocks rather than pay for parking.  So instead of dropping $51 bucks for admission (2 adults with 1 child) and parking, we paid nothing.  A great way to start a great day.

    The peafowl are loose throughout the zoo, a nice bonus.

    We followed our time-tested practice of arriving at the destination as the doors open.  This made parking easier (we pulled right into a spot not far from the entrance), the lines were shorter (there was no line at all,) and the zoo was less crowded.  We enjoyed being able to get close to the animals and see them without having to wait for other people to get out of the way.  In almost all cases, it is best to be early.  The zoo was no exception.

    You should have seen the crowds when we left two hours later.  The line  of cars approaching the zoo for parking stretched two lanes wide for blocks past where we parked.  And the crowds, especially near the entrance, were getting big.  We left after 2 hours chock full of enjoyment just as the majority of people were beginning their day at the zoo!

    We had advance knowledge (because we do our research!) of two important facts about the Milwaukee County Zoo.

    One:  Bring a stroller or wagon.  The zoo is very spread out with some of the exhibits located very far from the entrance.  So if you want your kiddoes to have the energy to see as much of the zoo as possible, and you want them to enjoy it, bring a wagon so they don’t have to walk the whole way.  You can rent a stroller or wagon from the zoo if they haven’t sold out, but why pay the extra money?

    Two:  Bring your own food.  The food in the zoo is very expensive and not very healthy with few vegetarian choices.  It is easy to bring your own snacks.  And if you have your wagon with you, it is easy to carry your snacks around.

    The Milwaukee County Zoo is beautifully laid out with many wide, shady paths connecting the different areas.  Scattered throughout are many benches and tables for resting and snacking.   Bathrooms and water fountains are never hard to locate.  We found the zoo to be pretty easy to navigate. (Get a free map at the entrance, so you can easily find your favorite animals!)

    One of our elephant friends.

    The exhibits are generally very well done, with numerous informational plaques identifying traits of the animals.  The enclosures are clean and the animals all look healthy.  Another benefit of arriving early: many of the animals were eating when we got there, which was lots of fun.  The polar bear was floating like a big, sleepy, furry iceberg (which was pretty funny!); but otherwise most of the animals were alert and active.

    He’s not dead, just floating.

    Several groups of animals were in large, well designed buildings.  Some of these buildings were DARK- it required extra attention to keep track of Bluey in the nocturnal mammals building.  Keep tabs on your kids in these spaces– in the dark, a lot of three-year olds look alike!

    There is a dinosaur animatronic adventure area, which costs $2.50 additional to get into.  We didn’t explore this option, because when we asked for a review from parents leaving this section, they shrugged their shoulders and said, “Eh…”  We figured it wasn’t worth it, when there are so many real animals to see, plus we go to dinosaur museums regularly.

    We were not able to bring Plum on this trip, but took note of an awesome looking ROPES course just inside the entrance.  This also costs extra, but includes a tall climbing wall, an obstacle course, and a zip line.  If you have older kids who are daring, it looked like a good treat.

    Sleepy flamingos

    As we ran out of steam, we headed for the gift shop at the main exit where we found a not unusual collection of stuffed animals, coffee cups, and t-shirts.  Prices were about what we would expect.  But we were able to raise our usual spending limit since we hadn’t spent any money thus far during our adventure.  Bluey found an adorable stuffed alligator to take home.

    If you do it right, not only is the Milwaukee County Zoo an affordable destination, but it is also highly enjoyable!

     


  9. Backroad Bonus: Paradigm Cafe, Sheboygan, WI

    August 17, 2012 by admin

    We didn’t set out for the Paradigm, but when we found ourselves hungry and in Sheboygan.  We lucked upon the Goodside Grocery and asked about where to find a good vegetarian lunch.  Although the two women at the grocery mentioned several other places in town, they kept coming back to how good the Paradigm was.  One started quoting her favorite veggie sandwiches off the menu.  We were convinced!  So we fed the parking meter and headed around the corner to the Paradigm.

    We were expecting maybe a small hole in the wall cafe, but that’s not the Paradigm.  What we found wasn’t just a coffee shop, but a great café in a fabulous space.

    The Paradigm features numerous hot and cold sandwiches, soup options, and a wide array of coffee drinks.  We greatly enjoyed the house hummus that come with a generous portion of homemade pita chips!

    Small wonder that the food is so good, since they run a scratch-made kitchen in their little corner of Sheboygan.  Whether you go for a mexican flair of the Blackjack– black beans and cheese squeezed into a fresh pita; the garden fresh goodness of the Zeus– cucumbers, hummus, kalamatas! and more; or something else- there is so much to choose from its hard to settle on one item.

    All is served up in a huge, open space.  There are large farm tables mixed in with smaller ones, couches to lounge on, and a reading space with a pretty good library of books and magazines to check out while you’re there.   There are also numerous board games stacked up on shelves and the space to play them.

    There’s a nice stage area in front of a large dance floor, so we bet the place gets hopping on weekend nights.

    We loved the seating and the fact that our kids were in a large safe environment where they could wander a bit, if they wanted.  Add in the wonderful selection of vegetarian options, a good coffee menu, and fast service and you’ve got a great place to dine!

    I guess there’s other vegetarian places to go to in Sheboygan, but it’ll be a while before we tire of the Paradigm and choose to explore more.

     


  10. Someone Told Me It’s All Happening At The Zoo

    August 16, 2012 by admin

    We’ve been holding off on going to the Milwaukee Public Zoo (MPZ) as it is outrageously expensive for our family of 4 ($51 not including parking).  But they have elephants.  And Bluey wants to see an elephant.

    So the research began as to what would be the cheapest way to gain access to the zoo.  The MPZ, in the company of over 150 zoos and aquariums across the USA, is a member of the Association of Zoos and Aquariums (AZA).  All AZA members are offered reciprocated free or 50% reduced admissions (check the list carefully as it is confusing to navigate).

    But the research didn’t end there.  The MPZ wants $71 for a family membership which doesn’t include parking (membership and parking is $109).  So we got to thinking, if the point is to support the Association of Zoos and Aquariums, do we have to join it through MPZ?  Wouldn’t a membership at any organization on the list gain us the same benefits?  And the answer is a resounding, YES!

    After a quick google of “cheapest zoo membership” we stumbled upon a blog which recommended joining the Baton Rouge Zoo.  This zoos membership at the family level costs $55.  But we hesitated as we like to keep our dollars local when we can do it.  After another quick look at the AZA list, our eyes hit upon the International Crane Foundation in Baraboo, Wisconsin.  A search on their website showed us that their family membership is $50- Bingo!  Our family loves the International Crane Foundation, they are a local organization, and they are members of the AZA.

    We can now attend MPZ for free (as well as other fantastic places like the National Mississippi River Museum and Aquarium in Dubuque), even though we’ll still have to pay for parking unless we luck out on a street space close to the zoo.  And this one visit to MPZ will equate to the payment for the membership cost at the ICF!

    Elephants, get ready for us.  Here we come!  And on our terms.